Monday, January 23, 2012

The Road to Missions #1

I realized some of you may be interested in knowing how we got to where we are today... as in, training for missions and planning on heading to the mission field. Obviously God has led us here, but we believe he has used certain people and events in our lives to guide us here. So I'm going to do a few blog posts (since it won't all fit in one) about how God guided us to where we are today... The Road to Missions :)

First, I think it's important to emphasize that we had people in our lives praying for us. Both of us have believing parents who prayed for us as we grew up. Specifically, my (Alisha's) Grama prayed for me, and then for both together, that God would use us in missions. She may have nagged sometimes too. Specifically, I remember a time when we were at their church when we were in high school and an NTM missionary couple was there, and Grama talked about how cool it would be if one of her grandkids went into missions and how cool this missionary couple was and how cool tribal missions work is... get my point? She may have nagged a little. She has a great heart for missions though, and it didn't go unnoticed by me.

So ultimately, God has been working in our hearts since we were born to interest our hearts in his greater mission- taking the gospel to the world- but he really first grabbed our attention in the summer of 2006. We had both just graduated from high school and had decided to go on a mission trip that would take up most of our summer. We went with the same organization: Teen Missions International. Ben went to Siberia (he was originally supposed to go to Cameroon, but that's another story in itself) and I went to Malawi, Africa. We were together during the two weeks of orientation, but then we parted ways...
In Sibera, Ben was one of the assistant leaders. He helped lead the team in construction projects, such as building an obstacle course for the missions program they were beginning there and working on a church. He learned a lot about being a leader, working in another country (it was hard to submit to some of the cultural differences), and staying warm in a cold climate...

Meanwhile, I was in Malawi. It was the best summer of my life. I saw a different part of the world that I had only heard about before. Now it was right before my eyes. I saw the joy the people had in simple things. I learned to live simply as well. My team was a foot washing team, so we took shoes and socks to the orphans and washed their feet, which were often blistered and sometimes infected (do you know how much I hate even CLEAN feet?). While there, we also did other work projects, helped share the gospel alongside the missionaries who lived there, sang songs in Chewa with the orphans (amazing!), learned to appreciate squatty potties, and I learned that there was a lot of need in the world, both spiritually and physically...


I loved every moment of my summer. Ben loved most moments. But when we came home, God had worked in both of our lives. I felt certain that I was supposed to go into missions after that summer. I even made a commitment at debrief. I was afraid to tell Ben because I didn't know what it would mean for us. I had decided I wasn't going to say anything until I let him share about his summer though. So, one afternoon we sat on the deck of his parents' pool, sharing about our summers, and Ben told me that he thought that he was supposed to go into missions. I don't remember if I cried or squealed, but I know I felt like doing both inside. It was so incredible that God had led us in the same direction that summer, living in opposite parts of the world. Of course, at that point we didn't know what "missions" looked like. We thought perhaps we would go join staff at Teen Missions. We really weren't sure, but it was the beginning of our vulnerability. We both had agreed that God was calling us to something greater.

One of my great professors, Dr. Peugh, at Grace College said something one time that has always stuck with me. "God doesn't show us everything at once. He knows we wouldn't be ready for it. Instead, he takes us in steps and slowly shows us his plan for our lives." I think this is so true. We didn't know everything at this point. God was just beginning to reveal his plan for us. He was taking us on our first step.

Friday, January 20, 2012

Living the Student Life

Ben and I are students here at New Tribes Bible Institute. Since we've been here for a year and a half, we almost forget sometimes that our life isn't exactly the normal life for a married 23 year-old couple. So what does our life look like?

8am- Wake Up/Class for Ben (Usually Ben wakes up at 7:55am to get to his 8am class and Alisha wakes up at 8 when Sophie wakes up for the day)
9am- Chapel (Tues are Married Ladies and Married Men split chapel, Thurs are Marrieds combined chapel, and Mon, Wed, and Fri are chapels with different speakers such as missionaries (our favorite!), our teachers, pastors, or evangelism or worship)
10am- Class
11am- Class

We have about 70 students in our class. There are 7 married couples, and the rest are single students.

This is our classroom:


In the afternoon, we do random things. Alisha stays with Sophie, occasionally hanging out with friends, meeting with a staff lady, or running errands. Ben sometimes has elective classes, sometimes works, sometimes naps, and sometimes hangs out with friends or a staff member among other things. And of course, we both have homework. We live in a big building that has both our apartment and our classes in. We live on the floor with other marrieds and single guys while the floor above us has more marrieds and single ladies. It's been nice living so close to friends, although, it's also hard to hide much with the type of environment we live in, so we know we are constantly being kept accountable :)

Here are some pictures of us hanging out with friends at school...

Our 2nd floor hall dinner (we did 2 of these last semester)...
Our good friends Jason and Laken who live just a few doors down...
Our good friend Jessica who is marrying our good friend Mike this summer...
And Sophie has good friends too...

Sophie especially loves hanging out with Asa, a boy who lives across the hall from us. And now that she can crawl, he seems to be a little more interested in her too. They both enjoy crawling to each other's apartments and playing with each other's toys.

We hope this helps you to have a better idea of what our life as a student looks like.

Friday, January 13, 2012

Where We Thought We'd Be Today


If you had asked us 3 years ago where we thought we'd be today, this is how we would have answered...

We'd be living in a nice house in a nice neighborhood (we actually had signed a contract to build a house very similar to this one before God caught our attention and we headed on the path we're on now) ...
Ben would be working construction...
Alisha would be teaching English...
And we would have the cutest dog in the world (this was our dog Jack who got hit by a car and killed 2 summers ago :( )...

We had always been considering missions but didn't know where we would go or with whom, so we figured we would keep going down the "American Dream" path until we knew. Then God used several things to stop this path.
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Francis Chan's Crazy Love. We read it on our 1 year anniversary trip to Florida and were convicted in our pursuit of the American dream and what we thought were our "rights" as an American Christian (i.e. owning a house).
Chris and Evie Jones who were in training with New Tribes Mission (they are now in Papua New Guinea) came and talked to our small group. We were intrigued, so we had them over for dinner and learned more...

And of course, the Bible and prayer...
Through these things, God opened our eyes to the need in the world and our mediocre attitude to it. We realized that we were expecting God to just throw missions in our laps... and truly, we were waiting for that clear, you'd-have-to-be-deaf-blind-and-dumb-to-miss-it kind of calling before making any big steps toward missions We failed to recognize that God already MADE that clear calling in the Bible when he said "Go into all nations." We didn't need to WAIT for one. We also realized that we just needed to take it one step at a time. We didn't need to have our entire life planned out before us. And so we took the first step.
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Alisha graduated from Grace College, we sold some things and packed up and moved to New Tribes Bible Institute in Jackson, MI. So now, this is our house (our apartment itself is 730ish sq. feet so a bit smaller than the house we planned to build ;) ... but hey, we have a gym and weight room and cafeteria and library all in our extended house, so we can't complain). We are so thankful for the Bible training we have been receiving here...
Ben works at Red Lobster...
We are preparing to take the gospel to those who have never heard it...
And we have a sweet baby girl who has brightened up our lives...


Our family of 3...

To be honest, we still grieve the loss of the house we were going to build. It's hard to give up materialism. We still desire it, even though we have peace about giving it up in order to follow God's plan for us. We miss other things too. We wish we could have another dog but know that a dog doesn't fit in our life right now since we plan to head overseas. Ben greatly misses working construction, but maybe he'll get to do that within missions. And once we move overseas, we know we will miss our family and friends greatly. Following God's calling isn't always easy, but we know it's rewarding. Please pray with us as we follow Him, and pray that we would be strong when giving up our desires is hard. Thank you!! Your prayers mean so much to us.

Sunday, January 8, 2012

What Will 2012 Look Like For the Millers?

2012 has arrived and is already in full swing! Many of you know that we are entering our final semester at New Tribes Bible Institute, and we will finish in May, so you may wonder what our plans are for after graduation. We have come to accept that all plans are tentative as God's plan is ultimate, but our tentative plans are as follows:

Jan-May 2012 --> Final semester at NTBI
March 2012 --> All 3 of us Millers will celebrate birthdays, Sophie's being most exciting, of course
May 2012 --> Move to the Warsaw/Winona Lake area (by the way, we'll be looking for a place to live - let us know if you know of anywhere on the cheaper end!)
May-December 2012 --> Ben will work, we will (excitedly!) be back at our church, CCC, and hope to plug in big time, Alisha will be a mommy, we will spend lots of time with many friends who we've missed these past couple of years, we will spend time with family, and we will prepare for our next step of training
January 2013 --> Lord willing, we will head to the next step of training, the Missionary Training Center (MTC), in Missouri ... this is a 1 year-2.5 year program depending what we study

Thank you for investing in our lives as we prepare for heading to missions!

And since no blog post is complete without pictures, here are some completely unrelated pictures...

We started 2012 off by attending Kyle and Lindsi Jones' wedding! These are friends of ours who attended NTBI last year, and Kyle's brother and wife are our dear friends who first told us all about NTBI and NTM (who are now in Papua New Guinea)
And Sophie is now 9 months!

Monday, January 2, 2012

Christmas Photo Blast

We had a wonderful Christmas, celebrating in both Indiana and in Vermont with family. It was Alisha's first time to Vermont in 7 years and Ben's and Sophie's first time ever to Vermont. Here are some fun Christmas pictures!




Sophie and Brayden with Great Grandpa Miller and Anita




Jenks Family (my mom's side of the family- all of us together except for my dad!)
Cousins :)

Monday, December 12, 2011

Getting in the Christmas Spirit...

On Saturday our school hosted a "Swingin' Christmas Party." They had swing dancing, but we didn't swing dance. We did enjoy the party though. Sophie dressed up for the party :)

We told Sophie to smile, and this is what we got...
The party was decorated really nicely :) Lots of lights and a big Christmas tree.
They had a photo booth there, so we took some fun pictures!
We just have 3 days left of classes and then we have a break from classes for a month!

Saturday, December 10, 2011

Random Happenings

This past month we've been busy with random activities.

We went bowling with the married students here at school...
Alisha went with her friend Laken to see the new Twilight movie...
Sophie "checked out" the snow... she wasn't impressed...
And Sophie turned 8 months! Along with turning 8 months, she now has a top tooth (so 3 teeth total), she's crawling, and she waves hello and good-bye!